Love Without Judgment: Embracing Humanity’s Imperfections

WHO TO JUDGE?

With our spiritual practices, we automatically and spontaneously unfold within ourselves a spiritual force that will permeate our every action. On the surface, an action might not seem right, but who knows the man’s mind? Who can understand the workings of the mind and body of anybody?

That is why psychologists and various people fail on this issue, for you are a unique entity. How many people in this world can judge or evaluate your unique entity? That is why “judge not that ye be judged.” That has always been said because man is not capable of it. For example, to know Divinity, you have to be divine yourself.

If you stand down here and want to know what is on top of a ten-story building, you cannot know. You will only have a very lopsided view of it. But if you can stand on another ten-story building, you can see what is on top of that building. That is why man’s mind, not having the capacity or the spiritual force, does not need to indulge in these things.

As far as judgments are concerned, man himself is essential and not his brother man. When you start evaluating your brother, you are only projecting your thoughts, your patterning onto your brother, and that is wrong because the mind is not clear enough; the mind has not become a clear mirror to reflect that Divinity that is within everyone, and therefore we do our spiritual practices. Consequently, we try to help ourselves onto the far more significant and remarkable path that could lead us to the reality within us.

In this world, there is not a single person, and there has never been a single person, and I include all the most significant personages in the world that have been one hundred per cent perfect. They cannot be. For the very moment that perfection is reached, then the entire body disintegrates. While the universal Spirit is still embodied, it will still have a trace of ego. Not in its dense form as most people experience it, but in a refined form. Yet the individuality is there.

HE WILL STILL SEE AND FEEL DUALITY

In meditation, man can experience total oneness with Divinity, but when he descends from those heights and lives a practical life, he will still see and feel duality.

The enlightened man feels that duality on a surface level, not deeper. For example, the Bhagavad Gita would say that it is established in the Self, the big S, and then perform, then act. If a man is based on himself, the impressions created by actions do not stick to him in impression form. They are just on the surface value and blown away. It does not densify his ego. For that slight trace of the ego of the illumined man will forever remain refined until he discards the body, discards it by will. He can prolong his life as long as he wishes to. But he can discard the body when he feels that “I had so much to do, and I have done it.”

When man is established within himself, and our spiritual practices are made for that purpose, then all actions of the body and mind do not affect him because he has realized his true Self. That is the goal of each one of us. When one reaches that goal, it becomes apparent to the observers. The illumined man becomes so obvious, for he does not become deflated by blame or get inflated by praise. That is the mark of the illumined man.

All of us want and do our practices, trying to do the best we can with our lives and attracting that great force called Grace. We are doing that to reach that stage of illumination.

The jackfruit has a sticky, milky substance in it. It is a lovely fruit with a sticky, milky substance. Ramakrishna said that if you dip your hands in oil and then break open the jackfruit, that sticky substance will not stick to your hands. This means the same thing is said in an analogy form, which is established in the self and then acts. Whatever you do, whatever performance there is, has no karmic bondage upon you. This is the ideal, this is the goal – this is the way to wipe out all our karmas.

Ramakrishna was an enlightened man. I do remember reading an instance where a dog was feeding himself from his feeding bowl, and Ramakrishna went there and sat down with the dog and ate from the same bowl because he saw the Divinity in the dog. He saw the Divinity in the dog. He saw God in the dog. And funny enough, if you spell it the other way around, it is God: d-o-g; g-o-d. He saw the Divinity in the dog. But if you and I should pass there, or even a top psychiatrist would pass there, oh, what would we say? “This is a madman.”

Ramakrishna never had massive audiences. He used to sit in a room with twenty or thirty people and have discourses, questions, answers and things. All of a sudden, he used to go into a state of samadhi, and he used to stand up and start dancing and performing in that ecstasy. If you and I were there, we would say, “Oh, he is mad now.” So, how can we judge an illumined man?

Do you know about the difficulties Vivekananda had in America? His teachings became very popular because he spoke fundamental truths. Today, newspapers do not need reports of talks because too many politics and wars are happening. They have plenty of material for their publications. But in those times, these things were new, and his entire talks were printed in many newspapers, and he reached a larger audience.

Perhaps established organizations started getting jealous of his teachings and popularity. They tried to trick him in so many different ways. Some of them got together and hired a well-known prostitute, who went up to Vivekananda’s room. She knocked on the door and said, “Swamiji, I have some problems. Would you help me?” Any person of any spiritual calibre could never refuse, so Vivekananda says, “Oh, yes, please do come in.” He started discussing various things with her, her problems, and showing her the way. Two hours went by, and the next day, there were headlines in the newspapers: “Hindu monk spends two hours in a hotel room with a convicted prostitute.” How terrible.

This has happened in the lives of all the spiritual masters that lived, be they of small stature or considerable stature. Who was the most persecuted man on Earth? Jesus. If you study the life of Ramakrishna, the committee that ran the temple wanted to throw him out, regarding him to be a madman. But despite being considered a madman, despite him teaching his close ones “no women, no gold,” and despite all the temptations in their paths, his chelas were faithful to their master. Devoted and loyal, for they knew what they had benefitted. They knew the glimpses they had of what is good and great, of what is Divine. Their lives were transformed.

ALWAYS SEE THE GOOD IN YOUR FELLOW MAN

All our problems might stem from past karmas, creating these negative feelings, and we feel as if the whole world is lost and the entire world is against us. That is not true. If I suffer, there is only one person against me: me. The world is not against you. Someone robs my wallet. So what? Perhaps I am doing a service by that. This man might have stolen my purse, and he might need that money to feed his wife and kids. How do we know?

You know the story of Les Miserables written by Victor Hugo, where he stole a loaf of bread to feed his children and suffered lifelong for that one loaf of bread. We cannot just judge. We cannot just jump to conclusions. If you jump to conclusions, remember, you will be concluded. It is to your detriment. For all the findings, judgments and all these things we think about of our brotherman is only a projection of our minds; it is because we lack love. When a person is devoted to his brotherman and loves his brotherman, he does not see the little wrongs of his brotherman; he always sees the goodness. Love itself is good, and how can good see bad? You know the three monkeys: see no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil. I have that on my mantelpiece at home and always look at it.

We always have to see the good in our fellow man. There is no one so bad that he has no good in him. Who is gaining by that? Not our brother, but we are gaining because we are becoming more and more positive. And by becoming more and more positive, we are uplifting ourselves. We are uplifting ourselves in so many ways. We are uplifting ourselves towards a divine goal. We are also lifting ourselves from our miseries.

… Gururaj Ananda Yogi: Satsang US 1980 – 10

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